Some secrets can really hurt others

I'm now in that group where I should have been more honest and open, I should have been the one to open up. Instead, it was a drunken friend that told my husband everything that I waited too long to say. He's upset, and I'm struggling to make it up to him. No, nothing that will kill the relationship, but it will leave a scar.

If I have any advice, it's to make sure that you're the one that reveals your secrets. It'll keep the sting to a minimum.