I Have a Confession

I'm your typical girl next door look I geuss. I'm not super attractive, nerdy and I guess I sorta have that natural look, fair skin look like Nadia Aboulhasan (plus size model - shes half lebaneses and I'm half kuwaiti).

I hate being compared to super hot girls who are shallow. I'm a human being and you don't really have to mention me being unattractive, BUT a nice person.

Its a pet peeve of mine. I can't stand it. I don't know why guys say this stuff and think it won't bother us but then they don't wanna hear a thing about other guys. GRRRRRRR.

ok. Mini rant over.

anybody with me on this?

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Dancewithme2

I remember being in my office, when I overheard a young guy telling a young lady what he thought of her, including her looks. I got so angry I ran from my office to catch him and sit him on his ***.

Don't guys understand how deeply they can hurt a woman? How heartless and cruel they can be?

It can also be reversed. Some women can break a man's heart like a twig.

darktippedrose · 36-40, F

yes it goes both way. one of my pet peeves is when girls are rude as hell to white guys cuz he likes her and he isn't black.

you could just say no thank you.

I saw a man cry his heart out when he caught his wife cheating on him. I was young and it changed my view of men forever.

Dancewithme2

I have cried rivers over women who have broken my heart. One of them here on Ep. Many of us cry rivers but just don't tell anyone. When I make a big post about this, I will send you a link, angel.

darktippedrose · 36-40, F

oh thank you

previously all the men I'd seen always beat their wives and cheat on them but it was okay, cuz they still took care of their wives.

So it was weird to me to see the same thing happening to a man.

Dancewithme2

It is true. I was taught that only a coward hits his wife, no matter what she does to you. I did not believe she cheated on me too till I walked in on her twice.
I know it sounds crazy but it is sadly true. I wish it were not.

darktippedrose · 36-40, F

well that was when i was like 12. lol. I know much differently now.

which is why I get frustrated and angry when people turn relationship problems into a gender war.

i think 95% of the time, men and women do the same exact things. Women do beat men, but not as much as men, or as hard I think because they aren't as strong as men. It still happens though. women don't rape their spouses as much as men do.

but besides that, its an even plane imho