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I Have a Confession

I'm your typical girl next door look I geuss. I'm not super attractive, nerdy and I guess I sorta have that natural look, fair skin look like Nadia Aboulhasan (plus size model - shes half lebaneses and I'm half kuwaiti).

I hate being compared to super hot girls who are shallow. I'm a human being and you don't really have to mention me being unattractive, BUT a nice person.

Its a pet peeve of mine. I can't stand it. I don't know why guys say this stuff and think it won't bother us but then they don't wanna hear a thing about other guys. GRRRRRRR.

ok. Mini rant over.

anybody with me on this?
darktippedrose
36-40, F
36 replies 14 views Jan 10, 2015
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BridgeOvertroubledWaters · 61-69, M
It's not the looks , it's the personality 👍
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darktippedrose · 36-40, F
@BridgeOvertroubledWaters not for my husband. For him, he goes for looks, just not mine.
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BridgeOvertroubledWaters · 61-69, M
@darktippedrose sad ... Be in touch ...
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darktippedrose · 36-40, F
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notsure · 56-60, M
Totally agree with you and think you are fine as you are
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Dancewithme2
I remember being in my office, when I overheard a young guy telling a young lady what he thought of her, including her looks. I got so angry I ran from my office to catch him and sit him on his ***.

Don't guys understand how deeply they can hurt a woman? How heartless and cruel they can be?

It can also be reversed. Some women can break a man's heart like a twig.
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darktippedrose · 36-40, F
oh thank you

previously all the men I'd seen always beat their wives and cheat on them but it was okay, cuz they still took care of their wives.

So it was weird to me to see the same thing happening to a man.
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Dancewithme2
It is true. I was taught that only a coward hits his wife, no matter what she does to you. I did not believe she cheated on me too till I walked in on her twice.
I know it sounds crazy but it is sadly true. I wish it were not.
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darktippedrose · 36-40, F
well that was when i was like 12. lol. I know much differently now.

which is why I get frustrated and angry when people turn relationship problems into a gender war.

i think 95% of the time, men and women do the same exact things. Women do beat men, but not as much as men, or as hard I think because they aren't as strong as men. It still happens though. women don't rape their spouses as much as men do.

but besides that, its an even plane imho
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bubkent
Wait... Someone told you you're unattractive?! If you're not considered as being attractive, then I'm not sure what that word even means...



Trust me (or you don't really have to -- up to you), you're gorgeous. If I ever met you, I don't think I would be able to stop checking you out. For those who ever told you you're not attractive, I'm sure they are either jealous of you or angry they can't be with you. Don't let these losers bring you down... You're too good for them.
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darktippedrose · 36-40, F
well some of those comments, some subtle cues about what is and what isn't attractive. I'm nothing like those women.

he has told me several times in subtle ways that i'm not attractive. him, being my husband
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wwfm
Well you already know that I think you are gorgeous. And super hot. Anyone who thinks otherwise is entitled to keep their opinion to themselves. If they decide against discretion them you should ignore them. Forever. Who needs them? And you are more the hot mom next door MILF type.
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darktippedrose · 36-40, F
hehe, thank you :)
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drawttocs
When you are compared it makes any compliment less. You are beautiful. You are sexy also. I would never compare you to anyone else. You have a unique beauty that is incomparable
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darktippedrose · 36-40, F
thank you
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flipper111
BUT is a word to be used rarely.

People should just say the positive things. And stop at that.
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darktippedrose · 36-40, F
yes i know what you mean. or just not say anything and forget the backhanded compliments
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flipper111
Right.
But there is almost always something positive to day..
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darktippedrose · 36-40, F
lets hope so
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SW-User
You're fine... and you're right... you should not have to listen to any comparisons. That notion is ridiculous, ... it assumes there is anything to compare (which there isn't).
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srsrls
one thing you are not unattractive. you are a very attractive woman and one that says different must be blind. love your pics
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darktippedrose · 36-40, F
thank you

I appreciate it.
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TheMetalRooster
That is not cool. I don't know what more to say than some people can't see past themselves to know that they're being hurtful.
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samueltyler
you sound wonderful why do you need to be told that you are? be self confident!
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darktippedrose · 36-40, F
i wasn't seeking compliments. I was just sharing my pet peeve. and self-confidence can be a bit hard when you're in a sexless marriage. Even being aware of it can still be hard.
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Friswed
Is it your own picture on the Avatar? Please put some pictures of yours in the album.
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darktippedrose · 36-40, F
its all me in my albums
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demorcan
But, you are attractive and nice. I have seen your photos and read your stories.
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darktippedrose · 36-40, F
thank you
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TailTeller
Stop being so foolish. You are someone that I would look back at if you walked by.
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lionheart500
You are not unattractive at all you are hot
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darktippedrose · 36-40, F
thank you :D
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jhi6900
I've seen your pics I think you are very attractive
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SatyrService
I would like to see you
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