I used to think the worst thing in life was to end up all alone

It’s not. The worst thing in life is ending up with people who make you feel all alone. - Bobcat Goldthwait

I lost over 30lbs of body fat between the second week of September and the third week of December and the only person that noticed, was a coworker. My family still doesn’t realize my clothes don’t fit anymore.

I only get my hair cut every few months, but I still get the same high and tight I did in the military. So I go from unkempt hobo, to spick and span soldier. It was two nights before my wife realized I got a haircut.

Tis the Year Of The Dove - forgive, forget, love unconditionally

It is possible I’m being overly sensitive

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KarenDuponteDurose · 51-55, F

Oh bless! Well done! Very impressed with the fat loss!

I know what you mean about hair and things. I teach, so I am a little older and can have a few grey hairs. Get they dyed, the children notice straight away..some colleagues do....my wife? Not always!

So I do feel disappointed then, so I get what you mean.

Keep on going. The world will catch up with you and they'll be surprised. That's when you drop the "Well you didn't notice!" bomb on them!