It happens you know. When what's a normal everyday occurrence to you, is a rare precious thing for somebody else.

It doesn't have to be materialistic. It can be an event. Like sitting and eating together with family. Like getting up everyday, and looking forward to hanging out with friends afterwork. Like having someone to call who can and who will not stop at finding you and making sure you're safe because they are fully capable of that and they care about you. Like receiving good hugs when you need it. Like someone being there to let you lean on their shoulder and let you rest until you've recharged. Like someone who lets you go on breaks and not looks at you bad when you say the words like "I want to go on a two month vacation"

You deserve good things, you see. But not everyone will give you that. Some will take and take and take and ignore you hurting. And for some of us, pain ignored is a common thing.