Dealing with unfair, unjust, ungrateful, disrespectful people and things....

Is so exhausting.
Yet I do it every day.
I seem serene by nature but when someone is deliberately unfair and disrespectful, it creates those storms in me...
I don't want to be destructive, but I feel that this emotion leaves a trace somewhere in space...
And I feel that sooner or later, it will get to them.
I still find it difficult to not react, to not be affected, to just let people be the opposite of what I'm fighting for every day and just move on.
I do not wish anyone suffering,
But my soul cannot accept this behavior and this way of life.
I only want them to wake up, inside, in their hearts.
And they will understand.
Is that too much....

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PhoenixPhail · M

It's impossible with a lot of people, considering where they are with themselves. Many people, in lieu of being willing to look at their own issues, insist on making others responsible for their suffering. Pity. 😔

Umile · 41-45, F

@PhoenixPhail nmh :(

Disgustedman · 61-69, M

I moved away from the area that I was living in and I'll tell you I never felt so free.

Those who hurt me, ignored me, hate me and generally tried to rip me off I left behind.

SW-User

My first impression of you was "wow, she's very kind hearted".

After reading this, thats confirmed. Youre full of sincerety and serene is a great way to describe you.

There is a philosophy that everyone acts from good intentions, even those that do the most evil. I just watched about it yesterday.

It makes you wonder.. what that person doing the perceived wrong/hurt believes is the good intention.

Busybee333 · 31-35, F

@SW-User True. One of the most difficult things to realize is that a previous version of you did a terrible mistake. Most likely because you were so hurt and burned out that it took away some of your ability to see the big picture and to be attentive to how your behaviour might affect the people around you. Even if you are good, you can still be toxic if you forget to take care of your own wellbeing (contrary to egoism, self-care is helping yourself to be the best version of you so that you may also help others). I am working on that every day. A lot of self reflection and healing involved. Healing from the inside out takes time. Though seeing that my words and experiences may help someone relate or feel better... makes this process so much more enjoyable. Thank you for your kind words, they encourage me to continue doing my best! Never be afraid to be honest with yourself. It is humane to make mistakes. Realizing them and healing so that we don't repeat them is our responsibility. I think every person has the potential to be their most amazing self. I know the path feels long... that is why you tell yourself "one more step" on repeat. Keep learning. Keep growing. Keep feeling others better than before ❤

SW-User

@Busybee333 i hope to become good friends.

darkmere1983 · 46-50, M

you just have to keep fighting and marching on through this life.

Umile · 41-45, F

💯 DITTO

It is.

The world will never be GOOD good.

So, we have to learn to roll with it.

It's hard cause we believe and feel so much.

But we can only control and change ourselves.

:(

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