Pro choice women here, a question

are you in support of men having a pro choice option here? I say that and what i mean by it is if you support women getting to make the choice on life and death of the fetus, are you in support of men having a choice to wipe themselves financially all together from the fetus if you wanted to keep the pregnancy going and he didn't.
Or do you basically just have a pro choice opinion when it comes to women and at the same time basically have a pro life opinion towards men?

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Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F Best Comment

I am all for accountability and communication. If I am close enough to a man to allow him to have that most intimate part of myself we have already had a conversation outside the bedroom and he knows I am prolife for myself. I am going to be using whatever my OB says is most effective, but if I get pregnant there will be a baby in our future. It would not have to be a formal arrangement, but dude has to show up for his kid. I can take care of the finances but he better be ready to coach little league and do dad things with that child.

Torsten · 36-40, M

@Fungirlmmm much respect to you for that answer. I think its very smart to have that conversation before intimacy to know each others position on this so both parties know what to expect and if they can agree with it.
I do however think fathers should take care of the finances unless if separated. and finances should be equally shared depending on the custody agreement. If its joint, it should be equal and if its part time, fathers should put in i would say 3/4 of the finances.

Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F

@Torsten I wouldn't turn it down, but I am a woman that is friends with all but one man that I have previously dated. So when I say I would find a way I would and I would also try everything possible not to go to court. If I have given that part of myself to him I know he is a good man. Many do not think about things other than physical and they end up stuck with incompatible parenting partners. I am about a person's heart and soul

Torsten · 36-40, M

@Fungirlmmm well that just shows you are way more intelligent than so many people to think in such a way and when it comes to intimacy you think of way more than the physical side f things and to also avoid court as much as possible.
A very rare type of woman indeed and anyone lucky enough to be with you, has basically won the jackpot