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I am getting an abortion soon

I am too disappointed. My 2nd pregnancy was not planned. People infertility issues have nothing to do with me. I delete rude comments. It is million of kids that can be adopted. Before 20 weeks I cannot go through this anymore. 1 kid is enough.

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LadyGrace · 70-79

You don't know how to raise a boy? Kids don't come with instructions, it just comes naturally for a mother. We all start out from scratch. I think that one extra mouth will not eat that much more and your other baby would have a sibling to play with. That would really be great and I think in the long run you would be glad you kept the baby.

MissPerfect · 22-25, F

Sounds like you're making the wise and responsible decision for your little family.

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LadyGrace · 70-79

@MissPerfect That's no surprise, coming from an atheist. Even Satan believes there is a God, but he's not going to heaven. You would do well to think again. Once you cross over there's no turning back. Got it? Good!

MissPerfect · 22-25, F

@LadyGrace Your sense of morality consists of attacking the decisions of those in trouble with threats and gibberish. Go away you foul demon.

LadyGrace · 70-79

@MissPerfect

Your sense of morality consists of attacking the decisions of those in trouble with threats and gibberish. Go away you foul demon.

I never made any threats to that lady, in fact I told her I sympathize with her situation. I guess you can't read either, but your sense of morality .... oh, sorry.....lack of morality, consists of killing the unborn, so you have nerve talking about morality. You called yourself right....a foul demon.

LadyGrace · 70-79

Can you give us an update? What did you decide?

Shakealot · 26-30, F

@LadyGrace I will not abort. I'm way too far along 💗

LadyGrace · 70-79

@Shakealot Okay honey. Please take care of yourself. Did you know you have the option of having your tubes tied right after you have the baby, as you yourself said that you don't want any more children because they would be such a burden on you. But whatever doctor you go to you must make sure he knows that's what you want so that he can put you in a hospital that will do that. Not all, do. I think that would be a great option for you and then you would never have to worry about that again. I'm keeping you in my prayers. Much love, Grace

REMsleep · 41-45, F

@Shakealot I am so so happy that you choose to allow your child to survive. If you need to talk I am here. I hope that you find peace away from the baby's father.

TurtleEclipseOfTheHeart · 22-25, F

I thought abortions were illegal

REMsleep · 41-45, F

@TurtleEclipseOfTheHeart No it depends on each individual state. Thats what the Supreme Court ruling is.

Shakealot · 26-30, F

@TurtleEclipseOfTheHeart My body, My choice. I think people will start getting an abortion at home if it is illegal.

TurtleEclipseOfTheHeart · 22-25, F

@Shakealot girl, just be safe

DazzaTheHutt · M

You’re getting a rude comments because you’re going kill a child based solely on its gender - you said previously if it was a girl you would keep it.

If you do this you’re a disgrace and deserve everything you get.

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DazzaTheHutt · M

@Shakealot You should try. That little boy could grow up adoring his mother and have great respect for women in his adult life because of the love you give him. Don’t kill him for what he is.

Shakealot · 26-30, F

@DazzaTheHutt Yes, I can do it then. I just know he will protect his sister too. They will be 22 months apart.

DazzaTheHutt · M

@Shakealot You’ll be great I’m certain.

I also have a sister and we looked out for each all the way through school, and I financially supported her during her divorce. She is two years younger than me.

I’m certain if you love that little boy he will grow up to be a kind man who will look after you for the rest of your days, like a family should.

bijouxbroussard · F

You have to do what’s right for your circumstances. No one else has the right to say otherwise.

chuck7882 · 61-69, M

The decision is yours and yours alone. Nobody has a right to criticize you or tell you what you should do

CountScrofula · 41-45, M

Gotta do what's right for you. Just keep safe and healthy.

ginnyfromtheblock · 26-30, F

lots and lots of love to you. your choice is yours alone. 💖

ABCDEF7 · M

Have you decided that just now? You could have done it earlier.

Lilymoon · F

No judgements here...👍

SW-User

It sounds like you are in a really difficult situation. Whether you go ahead with this choice or not, I hope your life gets easier and you have good supports around you.

MissPerfect · 22-25, F

Hey everyone. Good news! LadyGrace has blocked everyone she can't force her foolish immorality upon. This means we won't be hearing from her again.

SW-User

That is for the best, many on the other hand would have another child and end up not caring for them the way they should.

Beautywithin · 36-40, F

Your body your choice, but be prepared its a horrible thing to go through make sure you have people to talk too afterwards.

keqing · 26-30, F

I mean sure but 20 weeks? Sorry if i misunderstood

Shakealot · 26-30, F

@keqing I am 17 weeks pregnant tomorrow. Is it too late?

keqing · 26-30, F

@Shakealot im not sure to be honest. Here you have 3 months to do it, in europe

SW-User

I’m sorry for what you’re going through. Do what’s best for you.

uncalled4 · 56-60, M

May you find peace and comfort during this difficult time.

REMsleep · 41-45, F

I'm sorry to hear this. You seem like you really need support right now. If I could take your baby in your place I completely would in a heartbeat.
Are you going to be ok?

Shakealot · 26-30, F

@REMsleep Yes. I can't be a Single mom of 2. I would hate to go through labor and delivery again. My abusive baby daddy refuse to step up. I need somebody to talk to.

I wish I had a baby daddy who was so excited and take care of the kid we created

SW-User

I am just amazed at what I see on this site right now. How many posts do you have out about this baby?
I've raised children alone and the difference seems to be I love children and never saw abortion as an option.

Shakealot · 26-30, F

@SW-User Okay. I will probably keep baby. It don't have to take a village to raise a baby.

SW-User

@Shakealot A village to raise a baby is a great way to see things, but as you say... it doesn't have to take a village to raise a child. Loving a child and caring about that baby are the first two most important things... finding others around you to help and emotionally, financially help you is next. Look for programs for single moms... and if you are here to be serious and not just scamming or trolling.... then also check out programs for abused women. You don't have to be alone or do everything alone.

REMsleep · 41-45, F

How are you today? Are you OK. Seems like you been going back and forth about having an abortion.

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LadyGrace · 70-79

@Shakealot I'm so sorry. Though I'm not for abortion, my heart goes out to you, being in this situation. It is hard for sure.

Shakealot · 26-30, F

@LadyGrace Are you for adoption?

LadyGrace · 70-79

@Shakealot Yes.

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