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Serenitree · F
@abe182: well, yeah. If you dress to attract, an approach would be nice. When I was still making the club scene, I used to dress to say what I wanted men to know. If I was looking to actually mingle with the men, I wore push up bras and low cut t-shirts and hip hugger jeans and slingback shoes. If I was there with my friends, just for the music and the drinks, I wore regular t-shirts, probably with a picture or a saying. Regular jeans, and sneakers. The message was quite clear in the one case, and not quite so clear in the other, but when I'd smile and say,,thanks, no...I'm here with my friends. They knew.