Why do guys in the club just stare?

@Serenitree: Oh but I miss that! It was fun! Lol

@BemyValentine: I've always been a bit hard of hearing. And I hated screaming over the music. Mostly I didn't bother trying.

@Serenitree: I do know what you mean.I used hand signals to go talk outside. Beside😁at times we use to plug our ears and dance lol.😁

@Sniper: for sure.

@abe182: well, yeah. If you dress to attract, an approach would be nice. When I was still making the club scene, I used to dress to say what I wanted men to know. If I was looking to actually mingle with the men, I wore push up bras and low cut t-shirts and hip hugger jeans and slingback shoes. If I was there with my friends, just for the music and the drinks, I wore regular t-shirts, probably with a picture or a saying. Regular jeans, and sneakers. The message was quite clear in the one case, and not quite so clear in the other, but when I'd smile and say,,thanks, no...I'm here with my friends. They knew.

@Serenitree: I don't stare but it would be nice if they gave some nonverbal clue they were interested. If they did and they guy kept staring then that's just cowardly and creepy.