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Should things really be left unsaid sometimes?

People are different from each other, they think differently. We don't know what's going on in their heads. They don't know what we are thinking. So when two completely opposite people, who are so close to each other, have differences... should they confront each other? Should they just fight and say everything they have on their minds? Start with a clean slate?

But they both know what's going on. They aren't blind. They are at a situation where, if they say it out loud, other people are affected, relations are broken. So they continue the way it is going. They keep it inside. Because they think it's for the best. To keep somethings left unsaid...
Serenitree · F Best Comment
I feel that, instead of unsaid, it should be written down, and read again and again every day for a month, and edited over and over again, until the hurtful thing you were going to say becomes a bridge to better understanding, and then it should be said. Just don't speak in haste, if the person is important to you.

May 27/17
3:37 pm
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burton318 · 31-35, M
@Serenitree: I agree. Well said
Serenitree · F
@Itsrishu: thanks for best answer


May 27/17
7:20 pm
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Itsrishu · 26-30, F
@Serenitree: you made mine too

midnight02 · M
yes. it was better to find out that I was adopted myself xD
burton318 · 31-35, M
Sometimes yes. I would never hide how you feel about a particular situation but if you think it will hurt or harm someone else, or be detrimental to the situation then it is probably better left unsaid. Wisdom is the best method for deciding though.

 
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