Why do people wallow in self pity and saddness?

And are comfortable with.

@Justpeaceandlove: or maybe afraid to change

@DanGerUs: i'm thinking fear is the major factor.

@Justpeaceandlove: yup I think fear rules over everything and can easily push some people to stay in a comfy corner

@DanGerUs: it's always choice whether consciously or not. A study of the mind will tell you.

@Justpeaceandlove: absolutely! but I'm sure that there are some that never learned about their choices and just stick with what they know even if its sadness and pity... I for myself choose to avoid negativity and sadness because it can so easily consume me. I want better for my kids.

@DanGerUs: yes I understand that. I myself cannot be around it or listen too long before I fall into that trap.

There is so much help these days though but it a free will choice. I accept that.

@Justpeaceandlove: thus the name "justpeaceandlove" ;)

@DanGerUs: thank you. Me too.: ) I have to sleep now. Can't keep my eyes opened. Hope you have a great night. Thank you for the conversation. :)✌🌹

@Justpeaceandlove: thank you too... me too. I gotta head home and get some rest for another day in paradise. Peace-out