Why do people wallow in self pity and saddness?

Wouldn't it be easier to ball your tears out, set your heart and mind and then move forward?

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LadyGrace · 70-79

Some would like to, but can't. They may have a chemical imbalance.

Danez · M

yes it would be easier... but some people sadly have been wallowing in the mud for so long that that is all they know.

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Danez · M

@Justpeaceandlove: thus the name "justpeaceandlove" ;)

Justpeaceandlove · 61-69, F

@DanGerUs: thank you. Me too.: ) I have to sleep now. Can't keep my eyes opened. Hope you have a great night. Thank you for the conversation. :)✌🌹

Danez · M

@Justpeaceandlove: thank you too... me too. I gotta head home and get some rest for another day in paradise. Peace-out

yellowstone

Depressed and sad people are so distraught that they can't see past the moment or past their pain. It takes time and emotional support to get to a better frame of mind.

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yellowstone

@Smtwn829: Interesting. Maybe it helps to empower oneself with some challenges along the way.

Justpeaceandlove · 61-69, F

Totally agree. :)

Smtwn829 · 36-40, M

@PumpkinSpice: I believe that overcoming challanges and difficulties make life much more fun and enjoyable.

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blueyellowpurplesticksnstones · F

maybe sometimes just crying n letting out is not enough..ppl may take time to move on

MyNameIsHurl · 41-45, F

Keep on truckin

bijouxbroussard · F

People are as sad for however long they are sad. So no, it's not always a question of "bawling ones tears out...and moving forward". Sometimes one's heart and mind doesn't set so easily.

Smtwn829 · 36-40, M

I understand that there are things that will stay with a person for the rest of their life. but some of the best people I have met use it as a motivation and move forward. What bothers me are the ones that hide away to wallow in grief.

Justpeaceandlove · 61-69, F

@Smtwn829: I never understood why some do that but I accept it.

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