the latter

Hmm, good question. Both but more so the latter

I'm always evolving

The version that is ready to bust on out. She's soooo ready to go!

I'm BEYOND ready to be someone's boring and embarrassing mom and wife. ☺

I was and I even slipped into it when I first came to this site. Now, I'm being my authentic self

A version i can can mine

I'm entirely out of stock as of 1967.

Waiting for the right person to show the only me

There is no 'i' to do either.
Only the illusion of an 'i' exists in the mind.

Yes