What's the reason that some older men on here are mean to me but in person, the older men I greet are usually friendly?

So I have noticed one thing that some older western men on here can be mean to me in my posts and some can be really insulting but in real life in my outings to Central areas of Bangalore in India, I not only socialize with women but also greet and talk to foreign men too and even greeted older western men as a 25 year old Indian male but never got any mean responses from them or insults but why online some older men can be mean too and insult me? Why does it happen? I havent seen it happen in real life. Those men talk well and in a friendly or neutral way in person so why not on this site too? Like I see some judging me on here, some making fun, some thinking I need help, some thinking I am an AI etc even though these aren't true and they don't know the full context.

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ManOfSteel · M

I’m sorry if I’ve ever come across as unfriendly or mean toward you. I honestly think online Western culture can be much more judgmental and dismissive than real life, especially when people don’t understand the context behind someone’s posts. It doesn’t mean you should stop posting or sharing your thoughts. I get very little engagement on some of my posts too, and I’ve learned to just put something out there, go about my day, and not let strangers’ reactions bother me. You’re right that most people here don’t know the full context of your life, so they’re judging a small piece of what they see. Keep being yourself, keep meeting people in the real world, and don’t let a few people behind a keyboard make you question yourself.

Heroisthebest25 · 22-25, M

@ManOfSteel No man I am not talking about you. You weren't mean. I am only talking about some older men here and not all. Actually I agree sometimes my posts get repetitive as i often post about socializing especially with foreigners and all so yeah some get annoyed and give such comments but yeah I am just sharing the memorable and fun moments I am having

Unefilletrescurieuse · F

People can act like jerks online. Hard and cruel fact. I’m sorry they are being mean to you. A happy person wouldn’t be mean to you. And remember if they don’t like your content, they can always keep scrolling down.

You do you and ignore mean and hateful people.

Heroisthebest25 · 22-25, M

@Unefilletrescurieuse Actually yeah my posts are more about socializing these days especially with foreigners i meet in person so yeah some finds it repetitive and gives harsher comments. I am just sharing them as those were interesting moments as it feels genuinely fun to meet someone from a different culture.

th3r0n · 41-45, M

I think you're pretty cool actually

I'm guessing they either think you're fake or they feel smaller because you're so strong

In person, those people probably won't dare speak a word to you

Khenpal1 · M

You have no real life 😂

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Magicianzini · M

There's a lot of mean older people here. It's just the climate for whatever reason. I'm not saying all the older people are mean, but far too many. I think they're angry/have life issues. You can't take that personally bruh.

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