Having standards is like having a fence around your yard

I'm building my beautiful thing in here

I'm learning I don't have to let you in

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EldritchFox · 41-45, F

That's what I prefer to boundaries.

A fence that doesn't block out anyone and everyone, but let's people know they aren't invited in until I invite them in.

Then I'm responsible for how I proceed without feeling trapped in my own space.