The reason why this interaction with the French woman yesterday felt similar to the interaction with Itisha. Do you feel it all makes sense?
So in one of my previous post I shared about my socializing and how this interaction with the French woman stood out. So yeah while walking from Church Street to UB City mall in the central Cosmopolitan areas of our city Bangalore in India, I talked with this tourist woman from France on the sidewalk. It was a wide sidewalk and she was relaxed which made it easier and we were walking next to each other while talking which felt so special. She was engaging too and so was I. The interaction was one of my best one yesterday and we were talking about multiple topics while walking next to each other. It just felt soooooo amazing walking next to such a pretty woman. She was mostly in her mid 20s or late 20s so about 24-28 age range and I am 25. But yeah that also reminded me of the interaction I had with Itisha in mid 2024 when I was 23. Itisha was a woman from my MBA campus and I remember I initiated conversation with her too while we were walking to our University. We were talking while walking next to each other too and she was confident and bubbly in the conversation as well. But yeah Itisha is a North Indian woman from Lucknow who has been living in Bangalore for a while. She was also very beautiful and even shared her umbrella when it rained while we again bumped into each other in Silk Board area of our city after we got down from the bus where she also happened to be. I remember feeling that same vibration in my stomach with Itisha which was even more intense and this happened when I just newly overcame my shyness. With the French woman I felt similar vibrations in my stomach too while walking next to her.
I was obviously fully composed during the interactions and talked normally. But yeah this feeling still happens because now I can speak with women in Cafes or in a static condition like standing or sitting or anything but a woman walking next to me and talking is still rare. I missed out before in school days too due to bullying and then in engineering days due to a more male dominated environment, so the shyness carried on until my 3rd semester of MBA. So yeah not too many memories of walking next to women and talking and going somewhere. So yeah these moments just felt more special than it would be for people who had normal experience growing up in their more formative years. So what do you feel?
I was obviously fully composed during the interactions and talked normally. But yeah this feeling still happens because now I can speak with women in Cafes or in a static condition like standing or sitting or anything but a woman walking next to me and talking is still rare. I missed out before in school days too due to bullying and then in engineering days due to a more male dominated environment, so the shyness carried on until my 3rd semester of MBA. So yeah not too many memories of walking next to women and talking and going somewhere. So yeah these moments just felt more special than it would be for people who had normal experience growing up in their more formative years. So what do you feel?

