What do you think, is it possible for a person to ruin ones life

or is it always "playing the victim" and one is always responsible for the outcome (after all one can choose how to respond to bad events)?
but then again, if youre driving a car and somebody throws a bar at you, is it your fault you run into a tree?

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bijouxbroussard · F

It’s definitely possible for someone to ruin their own life for example, by choosing to stay with the wrong person or becoming substance-addicted (I know it’s a disease, but many do seek recovery). But people who insist that surviving a tragedy not of one’s own making is purely about one’s reaction, can’t possibly understand human beings.