Why don't women on here comment on my looks or anything when I post my selfies here?

Unlike when a woman especially a 20 something woman posts her selfie here, many older men on here compliments her and comments her but when I as a 25 year old man post my selfie, there is usually silence or some random comment like about my lips being dry, whether I wore shoes or not, whether my clothes are ironed or not etc. 🥲😬😂. No comments on my looks or how I am looking from older women especially on here. Why? 😅🥲. I just asked which pic to put in my Instagram post but people were pointing out my shirt or shoes or just silence. So just asking it.

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ScreamingFox · 41-45, F

I think in general we're all tired of people seeking validation about looks. There's so much more to each of us that begs to be noticed.

Heroisthebest25 · 22-25, M

@ScreamingFox Yeah I understand that. I mainly asked it as older users on here are more likely to give honest opinions so I thought maybe the compliments will be more honest. I mainly made this post because I posted my recent trip pics on Instagram and it's been hours and I only got 6 likes so far which is much lower than others so I was just wondering what went wrong.

ScreamingFox · 41-45, F

@Heroisthebest25 Six likes isn't nothing. That's about the usual if you don't compare yourself to the people posting for mass appeal.

I don't think anything is wrong. The algorithm here sucks and it's just not the place it used to be.

People are more enthralled with memes and dad jokes these days. Just chill because it'll change soon enough.

Heroisthebest25 · 22-25, M

@ScreamingFox Yeah you are right. By the way the 6 likes I am talking about is on Instagram and not SW so yeah on Instagram it's mostly people in their 20s like me and more of my real life peers who follow me mostly about 21-27/28 age range and I am 25.

MsSwan

I don't find you attractive so I'm not going to say anything.

PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F

It's because women are generally not visually attracted or turned on and we don't really care what you look like.

MsSwan

@PatientlyWaiting25 I must be the exception.

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