Silverlady · 70-79, F
You can’t figure out life, you just have to live it. Here’s some advice that may help.
STOP SAYING YOU ARE A LOSER! I put that in caps cause it’s the most important thing. You probably have more going for you than against.
You are still young. Some of the most successful people started way older in life. Google it, do research. Understanding what they went through in life to get where they are now. It might help to motivate you. Most important, don’t compare yourself to others. When you’re watching others with a really great skill, you don’t see how much practice, the hours put in to developing that skill.
I watched a movie called “Bob the Butler” comedy about a guy who was trying to find a job he was good at. He used the yellow pages going through alphabetical one job after another. He was a good guy, tried hard to do his best but {being a comedy} he would burn the place down or something silly like that. He didn’t give up, he knew there was something out there for him.
Like there’s something out there for you. Writing is a good way to start, buy a notebook or journal. You don’t have to write anything specific, try to stay positive about your life. If you feel negative it’s okay to write about it but find something positive in it. Ask yourself questions about what you want in life? What makes you happy? Asking questions might help you figure out what kind of job you would like, something you can be passionate about. It might mean going back to school. Believe in yourself. Nothing in life comes easy. Every evening take the time to write three things you’re grateful for that day. If you don’t write anything do this. It will change you!
Last but not least, if you’re still with me. 😂 finding friends is hard on most people. First you need to find a place to meet people and put yourself out there. I’m an introvert so that’s hard for me. Do you have a place you enjoy hanging out? If not, I would suggest volunteering! It’s a perfect way to help others, while doing so you can meet new people. Also it will help you build a better self esteem.
Sorry for this being so long. Hope it helps.
STOP SAYING YOU ARE A LOSER! I put that in caps cause it’s the most important thing. You probably have more going for you than against.
You are still young. Some of the most successful people started way older in life. Google it, do research. Understanding what they went through in life to get where they are now. It might help to motivate you. Most important, don’t compare yourself to others. When you’re watching others with a really great skill, you don’t see how much practice, the hours put in to developing that skill.
I watched a movie called “Bob the Butler” comedy about a guy who was trying to find a job he was good at. He used the yellow pages going through alphabetical one job after another. He was a good guy, tried hard to do his best but {being a comedy} he would burn the place down or something silly like that. He didn’t give up, he knew there was something out there for him.
Like there’s something out there for you. Writing is a good way to start, buy a notebook or journal. You don’t have to write anything specific, try to stay positive about your life. If you feel negative it’s okay to write about it but find something positive in it. Ask yourself questions about what you want in life? What makes you happy? Asking questions might help you figure out what kind of job you would like, something you can be passionate about. It might mean going back to school. Believe in yourself. Nothing in life comes easy. Every evening take the time to write three things you’re grateful for that day. If you don’t write anything do this. It will change you!
Last but not least, if you’re still with me. 😂 finding friends is hard on most people. First you need to find a place to meet people and put yourself out there. I’m an introvert so that’s hard for me. Do you have a place you enjoy hanging out? If not, I would suggest volunteering! It’s a perfect way to help others, while doing so you can meet new people. Also it will help you build a better self esteem.
Sorry for this being so long. Hope it helps.
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TodzillaLXIX · M
Silverlady · 70-79, F
@TodzillaLXIX Remember one small step at a time. It’s a process. If you want to chat about anything I’m here.
TodzillaLXIX · M
zeggle · 61-69, M
I think one of the problems is, The core of existence, the places we used to go. what was the hubs of our socializing are now empty of women, men and frolic that we once knew. Those people moved on or died, we ignored the importance at the time etc. Now it's gone.
My sympathies. The lack of financial stuff is the cherry on top of the cake.
Motivational text.
New hubs.
Find cash.
Or bask in the sun bumming around in peace.
My sympathies. The lack of financial stuff is the cherry on top of the cake.
Motivational text.
New hubs.
Find cash.
Or bask in the sun bumming around in peace.
Wiseacre · F
Can’t be that bad, really? If u have a home and a job, ur not a loser.