stayfickle · 26-30, F
To be honest, that is how I see “concept of love” these days. I lost interest of it since I became tired of disappointments, attachments, and the game of “looking” or “hide-and-seek”.
I’m not giving up tho. I’m just not looking. If it finds me tomorrow then that’s good.
If it’ll find me at my 30s, 40s, 50s, that’s okay.
I think of it like I’m holding out for someone who’ll speak the same language as mine (not literally), or who’ll make me change my mind about being disinterested of romance.
Because if I let myself go into the wrong relationship - we’re just wasting our time, aren’t we?
By the way, the concept of true love is you and him or her are willing to choose to be together. Hope you’ll find someone who’ll take that risk with you!
I’m not giving up tho. I’m just not looking. If it finds me tomorrow then that’s good.
If it’ll find me at my 30s, 40s, 50s, that’s okay.
I think of it like I’m holding out for someone who’ll speak the same language as mine (not literally), or who’ll make me change my mind about being disinterested of romance.
Because if I let myself go into the wrong relationship - we’re just wasting our time, aren’t we?
By the way, the concept of true love is you and him or her are willing to choose to be together. Hope you’ll find someone who’ll take that risk with you!
@stayfickle that’s a really good mindset, thank you for sharing
forestG · 46-50, F
Don't give up. I went through 2 marriages. Whether or not I ger married again is to be determined but don't give up. You're still young.
ThePatientAnarchist · 61-69
My (not yet) wife gave up when she turned 30 and had a birthday party that a friend referred to as her marrying herself. It was not long after that that she and I became a couple. That was 39 years ago and we are still together and love each other.
@ThePatientAnarchist that’s beautiful, thank you for sharing
Pfuzylogic · M
You have been so successful in your pursuit of academic goals and accomplished them I doubt that you won’t succeed with Love. You are too much fun to pass up for one smart lover.
@Pfuzylogic I hope so, thank you
Reject · 31-35, M
Yeah, 30 is a good age for giving up. I gave up even before that, but I accepted it by 30. To this day I still feel that was the best decision I ever made with my life.
@Reject I think the less expectations we put on certain things, the better the outcome
Reject · 31-35, M
@crownedwithlaurel97 Absolutely! My life was so much worse when I was looking for love. So much so it feels like every problem I ever knew came from that. I’m much happier now. No expectations, no disappointments. Just life and loving it for what it is.
MayorOfCrushtown · M
Took me 50 years to find the right one. I really was losing patience. Hopefully you find yours way before 50.
@MayorOfCrushtown better late than not at all right? Congrats 😀
This is actually really funny timing because i just got an ending-things text from a girl I wasn’t even thinking about when i made this post
forestG · 46-50, F
@crownedwithlaurel97 don't give up!!!
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
We’ve had very similar romantic histories 🤔
You are gorgeous and funny and girls by you need to get their eyes and/or gaydar checked if they’re not knocking down your door to be with you
You are gorgeous and funny and girls by you need to get their eyes and/or gaydar checked if they’re not knocking down your door to be with you
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JRVanguard · 26-30, M
@JRVanguard ugh that’s a shame cause you’re so personable. But I know you’ll find someone soon too
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
@crownedwithlaurel97 Aww you’re so sweet🥺
Let’s find a twin set of milfs and become in laws😌
Let’s find a twin set of milfs and become in laws😌
Zonuss · 46-50, M
There is someone out there for everyone.
When they arrive you will know.
You just have to do your part.
When they arrive you will know.
You just have to do your part.
@Zonuss are you like 100% sure about that
Zonuss · 46-50, M
@crownedwithlaurel97 Yes I am.
Dont give up.
Wetmybed · 61-69, MNew
I was 40 when I first got married
ChiefJustWalks · 26-30
The only true love I know that exists is the love for my kid. Anything else is conditional, no matter how much people like to claim otherwise
@ChiefJustWalks I can only imagine how pure that love between you two must be. But you’re right sadly
whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M
The moment you stop looking, you will probably attract a crowd. Thats usually how it works😷
@whowasthatmaskedman fingers crossed!
whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M
@crownedwithlaurel97 In the meantime. Work on becoming the kind of person you want to live with forever. Do "You" stuff.😷
Boeing · 36-40
It goes up and down, don't give up
Selah ·
Your soulmate isn't a hot blonde milf. Love who loves you. That's the unfortunate truth.
@Selah unfortunately very recently I also came to that conclusion. It doesn’t matter how much you like someone if they don’t treat you right
Jexie · 26-30, F
30 is young. Hush. Nobody's promised anything. It's only the effort you make
You're young and hot. Time is still on your side.
@NudasPriest I hope that you’re right 🙏
@crownedwithlaurel97 It's a habit of mine. 😉





















