If you moved out of state, what was your reason?

Work? Family? To get away?

My brother is trying to get me to move by him again and I’m starting to consider it if I don’t find a place where I’m hoping. It would be nice to get outta NY, I think 🤔

But even better to be closer to my from the start SW bestie who is never here, but we’re in touch off site.

Not me being more open to it just cause we’re already making girls weekend plans 😭

@CallmeHopelessNotRomantic

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Chiefjustice · 46-50, M

Education, then work and then family it has been a roller coaster ride.

MellyMel22 · F

@Chiefjustice All good reasons! I hope you are settled and not needing to do it any more.. Sorry I missed your comment yesterday somehow!

Chiefjustice · 46-50, M

@MellyMel22 thank you!! i have two amazing kids, blessings of God, thank you and a broken heart. It was not a very good match. I think, our competibility was low and little common interests.

MellyMel22 · F

@Chiefjustice I hope things are at least better now!

Chiefjustice · 46-50, M

@MellyMel22 Thanks, yes, life is moving in more sustainable direction. How about you?

MellyMel22 · F

@Chiefjustice That’s great.. I’m in a bad position right now, but trying to change it. I don’t think I wanna move there, but I may have to.

Chiefjustice · 46-50, M

@MellyMel22 i am sorry to hear that, i hope and pray it works out for you and your family. Move is never easy.

MellyMel22 · F

@Chiefjustice Thank you 🤍

Chiefjustice · 46-50, M

@MellyMel22 you welcome, are you originally from there?

MellyMel22 · F

@Chiefjustice I was raised in the Bronx and am not too far from there now.

Chiefjustice · 46-50, M

@MellyMel22 i see. Will you have to take your kids with you?I don't know if hot old and how many kids you have. Is your partner okay with you moving?

MellyMel22 · F

@Chiefjustice 3 of 4 live with me. The other is 26. I wouldn’t want to leave him or my 21 yr old who wouldn’t want to go either. If I go, it’ll also be to get me away from their father.

Chiefjustice · 46-50, M

@MellyMel22 i guess you have a tough situation but also offers you a plus point.

MellyMel22 · F

@Chiefjustice Yeah. We’ll see. I prefer to try to stay and find a way to break away, but we’ll see.