I just ordered DoorDash for the first time in years.
I feel so selfish. I haven't done this in a long time. The money won't go to anyone who needs it. It will go to a brief moment of self satisfaction. Wtf am I doing
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Vengabus · 36-40
If this is the worst thing you have to agonise about you should be very grateful
SinlessOnslaught · M
@Vengabus You just saw someone worry about spending money on themselves because they never do it, and told them it's the worst thing they have to agonize over.
Feel free to skip relaying your next advice to me
Feel free to skip relaying your next advice to me
Vengabus · 36-40
@SinlessOnslaught I said IF -
And IF it’s not why are you wasting your energy on worrying about it ffs
Concentrate on the things that matter and stop being so defensive and critical of yourself holy s- 🤷♀🤦♀
I saw six men blown up in Ukraine yesterday, so just get some perspective.
You’re not a martyr or worthy of pity because you don’t have money or you don’t do things for yourself and getting food delivered you can’t really afford doesn’t make you a bad person and won’t send you spiralling in to financial doom
And IF it’s not why are you wasting your energy on worrying about it ffs
Concentrate on the things that matter and stop being so defensive and critical of yourself holy s- 🤷♀🤦♀
I saw six men blown up in Ukraine yesterday, so just get some perspective.
You’re not a martyr or worthy of pity because you don’t have money or you don’t do things for yourself and getting food delivered you can’t really afford doesn’t make you a bad person and won’t send you spiralling in to financial doom
SinlessOnslaught · M
@Vengabus I posted that I feel guilty for spending money on myself. I'm allowed to feel that way without getting attacked by you.
No "ifs". You judged me. Don't use excuses and don't compete over trauma.
No "ifs". You judged me. Don't use excuses and don't compete over trauma.
Vengabus · 36-40
@SinlessOnslaught you’re a child aren’t you. My bad, I assumed life experience, rational thinking and thought beyond “how can I feel like a victim today?”