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Situations like that confuse me 🙄 (possible overreacting)

I know a small conversation can fix this but I want to complain 😔

I didn't like how hanging out with my best friend two days ago ended, everything was alright I got to enjoy a nice cup of French coffee in the sun, could be something small but I can enjoy a simple thing like that, there was even a huge white dog sleeping peacefully in the sun near us on the entrance of the café.

-an illustration of the sitting-
.................

Then we walked to my home, he left his car there earlier so we can walk to the cafe. I don't exactly go out alone anymore these days. But anyway right as we arrived and he was preparing to get into his car he said he didn't like hanging out at that time of the day and he'd like to do it a bit later next time.

He knows it's hard for me to get out in the cold and even if we sit inside the cafes we go to I'll be exposed to smokers and that's something I will not put myself through anymore after my last health ordeal.

Like I mentioned all I have to do is talk to him about it but it's still a bummer having to explain myself over something that I can't control plus I don't like feeling like I'm too much. I mean not to be arrogant but who should be compromising me or him 🤔
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TheRealBarbossa · 36-40, T
It's hard to comprimise without talking things through imo.

Maybe he feels there are too many people out at that time, and he's feeling anxious?
Maybe he's avoiding someone he doesn't wanna run into?


Next time, try to meet up at your or his place instead?

That's me giving advice, which you said you weren't after. Sorry.


No advice me: I get the frustration. I've been there myself, sadly, so I know what you mean.
@TheRealBarbossa Thank you.
He has a wife and kids getting out of school and lunch etc so you are right.

We can't really hang at my or his place. I'll figure something out.
Boeing · 36-40
@PiecingBabyFaceTogether what about another non smokers cafe..?
@Boeing Expensive but I guess it can work if once a week.