Despite the staff intervention earlier yesterday, I still socialized with women and it didn't break my confidence. What do you feel?
So yeah in one of my previous post I mentioned about a staff in a Cafe intervening after saying hi to some women but it didn't break my confidence yesterday. Later on I went to Church Street area of our city Bangalore, India and waved and talked a bit with some Indian women around and then in the courtyard area of this mall in Church Street, I talked with this foreign woman. She is literally from Turkey. Yeah she was so damn friendly and sweet tho. Her Western accent and Caucasian looks made me feel maybe she is from Western Europe too but she said she is from Turkey. She was laughing and talking and we asked each other's names and asked how is her day going on and how she is finding the city and ended it with a handshake. First time talking to a Turkish woman. I turned 25 just a week ago and she seemed closer to my age too.
Then in UB City mall, I approached this group of Indian women who were taking selfie of each other. One of them actually recognized me from this Cafe named Paris Panini in Church Street where I might have approached them before. One of the woman was like "Heyy you talked with us in Paris Panini right?" I didn't recognize them and said "Ohh I guess I might have said Hi" Then they are like yeah. So we talked a bit. They are in final year of engineering so about 21 and I just freshly done with MBA and mentioned about it. Eventually ended it with okay have a great day and they too said You too.
Then I went to this Cafe in Lavelle road. I saw another foreign woman there and sat on a table close to her table. I was scanning around a lot tho as I was intervened by a staff earlier on the day and only when I saw no manager or staff around, I initiated a conversation with her. She was friendly too and she is from Russia and she is very pretty about 25-30 age range or maybe even slightly older. She is a tourist tho but we had a great conversation. But I was scanning around all the time thinking what if some staff or manager comes and tries to intervene. She was fully confident tho talking to me. Asked her name as well and she did too and I mentioned about my MBA and everything and asked about her day too. We ended the conversation again with a handshake and have a great day.
Then in courtyard area of Church Street again near the mall, I saw these 2 beautiful Indian women sitting and I confidently approached them saying I am just saying Hi to new people and as my MBA is done freshly, I am just genuinely trying to socialize with new people in general. So they smiled and said Hi too and I asked hows their day going on and whether they are studying or working. They are working tho and about 22-25 age range. Some guys sitting around were full staring at me with surprise. I even said the women that they should have visited UB City mall as I saw a Lamborghini Aventador SVJ there. They said oh wow we went there already earlier in the day and I said I just saw it a few minutes ago there and it was thrilling. Eventually I ended the conversation saying Have a great day, it was nice meet you and they too said you too.
Then in Church Street itself, I saw these 2 foreign women in this bar but I didn't dare to approach them as I was intervened by bartenders in the same bar last month when I was simply talking with 2 British women there. So I wasn't trying to risk it even if a table near them was empty. So I went to this bookstore there and like a coincidence the women came to the bookstore a several minutes later and I eventually initiated conversation with one of them. She is an expat from Germany. She was friendly too and I am glad we talked in the bookstore where no one intervened like the bartenders could. We talked, exchanged names, talked about life and then had a handshake. Some people in the bookstore stared but no intervention. In the same bookstore after talking to the German woman, I approached these 2 Indian women too who just returned from Canada and it was a brief but friendly interaction.
Then in the Starbucks I approached these 2 Indian women who are studying Medicine and we had a brief but friendly interaction. As they are in medical college students, they had to make Biology sketches so they were making some sketch and I laughed saying how even I had to draw these during high school days and they too laughed and said yeah and then ended the day with another friendly and respectful interaction with 2 Indian women in Third Wave coffee who are working professionals and went home. I didn't let the staff intervention affect my mood and confidence even though at times I was scanning around more.
Then in UB City mall, I approached this group of Indian women who were taking selfie of each other. One of them actually recognized me from this Cafe named Paris Panini in Church Street where I might have approached them before. One of the woman was like "Heyy you talked with us in Paris Panini right?" I didn't recognize them and said "Ohh I guess I might have said Hi" Then they are like yeah. So we talked a bit. They are in final year of engineering so about 21 and I just freshly done with MBA and mentioned about it. Eventually ended it with okay have a great day and they too said You too.
Then I went to this Cafe in Lavelle road. I saw another foreign woman there and sat on a table close to her table. I was scanning around a lot tho as I was intervened by a staff earlier on the day and only when I saw no manager or staff around, I initiated a conversation with her. She was friendly too and she is from Russia and she is very pretty about 25-30 age range or maybe even slightly older. She is a tourist tho but we had a great conversation. But I was scanning around all the time thinking what if some staff or manager comes and tries to intervene. She was fully confident tho talking to me. Asked her name as well and she did too and I mentioned about my MBA and everything and asked about her day too. We ended the conversation again with a handshake and have a great day.
Then in courtyard area of Church Street again near the mall, I saw these 2 beautiful Indian women sitting and I confidently approached them saying I am just saying Hi to new people and as my MBA is done freshly, I am just genuinely trying to socialize with new people in general. So they smiled and said Hi too and I asked hows their day going on and whether they are studying or working. They are working tho and about 22-25 age range. Some guys sitting around were full staring at me with surprise. I even said the women that they should have visited UB City mall as I saw a Lamborghini Aventador SVJ there. They said oh wow we went there already earlier in the day and I said I just saw it a few minutes ago there and it was thrilling. Eventually I ended the conversation saying Have a great day, it was nice meet you and they too said you too.
Then in Church Street itself, I saw these 2 foreign women in this bar but I didn't dare to approach them as I was intervened by bartenders in the same bar last month when I was simply talking with 2 British women there. So I wasn't trying to risk it even if a table near them was empty. So I went to this bookstore there and like a coincidence the women came to the bookstore a several minutes later and I eventually initiated conversation with one of them. She is an expat from Germany. She was friendly too and I am glad we talked in the bookstore where no one intervened like the bartenders could. We talked, exchanged names, talked about life and then had a handshake. Some people in the bookstore stared but no intervention. In the same bookstore after talking to the German woman, I approached these 2 Indian women too who just returned from Canada and it was a brief but friendly interaction.
Then in the Starbucks I approached these 2 Indian women who are studying Medicine and we had a brief but friendly interaction. As they are in medical college students, they had to make Biology sketches so they were making some sketch and I laughed saying how even I had to draw these during high school days and they too laughed and said yeah and then ended the day with another friendly and respectful interaction with 2 Indian women in Third Wave coffee who are working professionals and went home. I didn't let the staff intervention affect my mood and confidence even though at times I was scanning around more.
22-25, M
