@Pomegranates thank u. The problem is that Idk which way ends up better. What seems good now might end up shitty someday and vise versa. So Im always scared of pushing it and regret it afterwards
@Foxygirl33 Keep it simple than. Find contentment in the simplest things. We make our mind wonder alot and than struggle with containing it. Ever seen the village folks in the mountains or remote parts of Iran? They know less, they want less and happy with it. At the end of day, it's our happiness makes all the difference 😊
There's nothing wrong with trying your best, or surrending, if that's what's needed - what's the healthier choice for you? Choose that.
Despite the outcome you'll learn something valuable along the way to get you closer to where you want to be. It's not so much about the ending, or the getting, but about the journey.
@Foxygirl33 I understand how that feels.🤗 It's something I often experience as well.
But one thing I'm enjoying about getting older is that I've had enough experiences in the past to know that even those choices I made that weren't the best for me... well, they all led to another path of choices. Some that led to wonderful things that would have never happened if I hadn't made that not-so-great choice in the first place.