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So I eventually said her fully who I am. Do you feel she can still ghost me?

Last week I posted about this girl Khushbu from my MBA campus who is my junior. So 2-3 months ago I visited my campus for completing some formalities as I am basically done with my MBA and about to graduate. After completing the formalities I socialized with my juniors including Khushbu and mentioned to her that she looks very similar to the girl Khushi who was my classmate during 1st year of my MBA in 2023 to early 2024. She laughed it off saying "Ohh really?" So Khushi was my crush too during starting of my MBA but I was a bit shy and she started dating this guy Harsh in our class and then this girl Anshika became my long crush. Khushi is 24 now, I am also 24 and Khushbu is about 21-22 now. Last week I found Khushbu on Instagram and messaged her and she eventually replied and we had some chats. Its been 2-3 months since our only in person conversation so she was probably not able to fully recognize me so I eventually said her that I visited the campus 2-3 months ago and we already talked about campus life, placements and I also said she looked like Khushi. So today she eventually replied "Ohhhhkkkk. Yeah now I remember you". I am kinda worried tho now whether she will chat more or not tho because I do get ghosted by girls. Just like Khushi, she is also a North/Central Indian and I am Bengali and we live in the city Bangalore, India now. Idk why I am worried that she will probably ghost me too. Her similar looks to Khushi also is making me nostalgic about my MBA 1st year days when I was crushing on Khushi at starting, What do you feel?
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RedGrizzly · 26-30, F
Well, you're doing fine. Just a little constructive criticism is for her, and you too, don't keep making comparisons. For one, it gives the impression you like someone else, and that you comparing her to your former crush it's like you're settling with her by fantasizing another woman through her. Not really appreciating Khushbu for being her, but because she's similar to Khushi. If that makes sense.
But take things with stride, try not to rush them, just remain casual and let the romance blossom naturally. Good luck to you friend!
Heroisthebest24 · 22-25, M
@RedGrizzly No i am not comparing her to Khushi. I am saying that only in looks she is similar to Khushi. I am not comparing their personalities
RedGrizzly · 26-30, F
@Heroisthebest24 okay, well, I don't see why she'd ghost you then because that was the only thing I could really think of? Or she doesn't feel the same way, either way, just be yourself and try not to work yourself up a lot of worry. :) good luck to ya
Heroisthebest24 · 22-25, M
@RedGrizzly She didnt ghost me yet. I am just worried whether she will because i got ghosted a lot in the past