Not sure what to do... I work as many hours as I can so that I can still get my son to and from...

being · 36-40, F

I can see somehow your renovations in the house paying off in the future. But regarding the present moment, it's not a happy situation to find yourself into really.

MhmmMake some pumpkin soup... It's usually cheap and hearty. It's not any solution but could make you smile...:)

Bexsy

Being a single parent without help is a huge struggle. I work weird, exhausting hours just to be able to work around my daughters schedule ( and her sitter)

Thankfully I've worked at my job enough years i have benefits. Which otherwise, I wouldn't make it. Those working at McDonald's probably make more than I do.

exchrist · 36-40

It is what America has become. I maintain forced retirement age (69 years old), especially in political office, would fix most of the country and world’s problems.
Regardless some advice. It doesn’t seem you can be any more efficient. How old is your son? Perhaps he can work part time. Seriously though self sufficiency might hurt short term it might be hard but long term it will get easier. 1) gardening to reduce food cost. 2) Take public transportation when/if possible driving is expensive. 3) renewable energy on your house 4) I have digital antenna at home which provides 35 channels. If you have cable cutting that might save. Another option if you have a landline is dial up it is slower but it’s cheap. Or rely on your cellphones WiFi capability to reduce internet tv phone cost. In my area one provider does all three. But even so antenna is free

SlippingAway · 46-50, F

It's so tough right now, I am struggling too to pay for food. I don't have a little one at home though so I know that makes it so much tougher. I know it's hard, but can you get some food from a local food bank to help you get through at the end of the month? Unfortunately I do feel like this is America right now because so many are struggling and so many people are choosing to just stay blind to that. I am so fucking pissed that they are taking Medicaid away from children and the people who need it the most. Are you able to get State insurance for your son? Here it's very cheap or free if you can qualify. I am trying to get creative, but I am at a point where I may no longer be able to pay for my medical insurance any more. I hate our system here.

eyeno · M

Think most of us are feeling the (((crunch))).
So I just pray and leave it in His hands, so much is out of our control.

I've prayed for you, I and all who are in need.
(prayer done).

LavidaRaq · F

Do you have any hobbies? So many people are turning to Etsy and TikTok with their hobbies and making money. I’m sorry you have to go through this hugs

ChiefJustWalks · 26-30

Shits not easy. Prices of everything keep going up but the amount we get paid goes up so much slower. I was soo broke when I first found out I was gonna be a dad & I've been broke ever since. My kid's mom lost her job when she found out she was pregnant so I immediately started paying her rent. Things were good for a while until I went to jail & then we struggled more. I'm really grateful she was able to stay afloat without me, she's an amazing woman. But I know it wasn't easy & I still always feel bad for causing that stress & losing my ability to be there. I felt beyond useless.

My struggles are largely my own fault. People tell me not to be too hard on myself & that I'm doing great but I can't help but feel so behind everybody in life. It's just so hard to build up to that typical cliche "american dream" of having a home in a nice neighborhood where your kids could play outside freely these days. Sometimes I see people who have all that & I just wonder how they got there or if they had any help. Because it's not as easy as it's often made out to be. I just keep telling myself one step at a time. One day I'll get there & I'll feel even happier about it because I'll know how much work it took & all the years put into it

exchrist · 36-40

I was collecting returnable cans on my way to and from work as well as while at work to supplement my food budget. 5¢ a can. It added up to about 20$ a week usually

Notsimilarreally · 31-35, F

I think having a "side hustle" is the only way to have extra money, or enough money, if you aren't in the top income bracket.

ThreeLittleBirds · F

I hope and pray that in time things get better for you and so many going through the same things.

You’re not alone 🫂 🌹 🙏🏼

val70 · 51-55

Being on here and posting is already a first step. The next one is yours. Plenty of good advice on offer here. Gave some already before. Do take care!

MyMonstersAreReal · F

All I know is surviving looked easier in the 90s.

Livingwell · 61-69, M

Pls DM me..

Julien · 36-40, M

Fishing …saves money because therapy is expensive

ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M

Sadly it seems to be the American dream for so many people. :(

deathfairy ·

this is the american lie.. 💔 you are an amazing woman and mother. 🫂