Women become detectives when they think a man is cheating but are blind and can't see when he's not happy.

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HallofMirrors · 31-35, M Pinned Comment

No cheating is happening. Just highlighting the selfishness of it.

They're not mind readers until it suits them.

itsok · 31-35, F

@HallofMirrors I think it’s pattern recognition, not mind reading. You recognize when someone suddenly starts doing something they didn’t do before.
Slow changes are not an obvious alarm

bijouxbroussard · F

@HallofMirrors The selfish person decides cheating is easier than letting their partner know they’re not happy.