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Women become detectives when they think a man is cheating but are blind and can't see when he's not happy.

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HallofMirrors · 31-35, M Pinned Comment
No cheating is happening. Just highlighting the selfishness of it.

They're not mind readers until it suits them.
itsok · 31-35, F
@HallofMirrors I think it’s pattern recognition, not mind reading. You recognize when someone suddenly starts doing something they didn’t do before.
Slow changes are not an obvious alarm
@HallofMirrors The selfish person decides cheating is easier than letting their partner know they’re not happy.

Ontheroad · M
Just a thought, but when a man is unhappy, he changes behaviors, body language, gets silent, etc. Strangely enough, that's often the same things one sees in someone who is cheating.

When people don't communicate (talking AND listening) then it's left to the imagination... always a bad thing.
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
You know men don't always know when women are unhappy either... you got to talk to each other and listen to each other.
She can’t read his mind. If he’s not happy, he should say so rather than bringing a third party into it.

And yes, same is true when the woman’s unhappy. Let him know.
Wallflow3r · 31-35, F
If you’re not happy, leave. Cheating is no excuse.
@Wallflow3r This.
BlueVeins · 22-25
Insecurity drives people more than most things. Men too.
HootyTheNightOwl · 41-45
That's what communication is for...
Bleak · 36-40, F
Blame game.
Torsten · 36-40, M
Its not that theyre blind to it. Its just that they dont care about their mans happiness. Most only care about themselves
Are you okay?

No excuses for cheating though.

 
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