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I went to a coffee with the man I fell in love with and openly expressing my thoughts and feelings

He said he doesn't feel the same way but my "tapping into his field" says differently.
What I mean is, I am detached from the outcome and so I have a pure vision, a new found clarity.
Nevertheless life is consistent with its surprises but I'm ready to take any heartbreak it's going to bring, or heart-hugging it might want to offer too, I'll accept any offering from my love.

🌅

On a different note, I had a swim and I'm going to meet some friends for a coffee, then later will go to a house of other friends for dinner.

I haven't grown stronger within myself only, but grown stronger in allowing the community network to be there to catch me if I fall.

😎🌸 How's that huh cool, I'm growing super cool, I am the rabbit girl who practises the dragon kung fu...

😏😜🐰🐲🌀😍🤭😂💖🔥😘🫠❤
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SageWanderer · 70-79, M
It’s good to hear from you as usual. And life is full of surprises with a fair amount of both heartbreak and heart hugging. Also it seems you have developed a symbiosis between you and your community; a mutualism where I’m sure not only are they there for you but you for them. And I always thought you were super cool, just had to find out for yourself!
being · 36-40, F
@SageWanderer yes 🤗 I am doing my best whenever I can to be of service, little things sometimes are good enough, even if just being there
ABCDEF7 · M
Love is never between two people, it's always in our minds, just like hate, jealousy, anger, empathy, etc. It's another common coincidence that two people at the same time have it in their minds for each other, because it is commonly easy to have this emotions. It is hyped by humans because they like the influence of oxytocin, and by society because it establishes the reasons for civilizations to survive.

Happy to see you getting involved but not affected by it. :)

What sort of coffee you like more?

Take Care.

Have a nice time.
Strictsir · 26-30, M
@ABCDEF7 Well said. It is entirely the creation of our own individual thoughts and emotional reactions, a combination of several factors - attraction, admiration, feelings of contentment in another's company etc. Collectively, we label all these things as love.
enchantedautumn · 31-35, FNew
Please don't waste your time on any man who doesn't feel the same about you.
You are only fooling yourself if you attach yourself to him and he doesn't want it.
I'm not sure what 'tapping into his field' means but if he doesn't feel the same but likes the attention you give him then he really is a player and isn't worth your time or emotions.
being · 36-40, F
@enchantedautumn this is not one of these types of stories, but thank you for your care 😊
enchantedautumn · 31-35, FNew
@being That's good, then! ❤
Strictsir · 26-30, M
He's made his feelings, or lack of them, clear: my advice to you is to back off completely, distance yourself from him, and let him do all the running now. The way that he responds will tell you all you need to know about his commitment to any possible relationship. It may be that he likes you, is attracted to you, but isn't really looking for anything too meaningful, in which case you need to decide whether this is worth pursuing or not. Don't waste your time on someone who cannot match your feelings.
being · 36-40, F
@Strictsir thank you for your kindness and yet, I am aware of what I need to do... :)
Bang5luts · M
You are awesome. I told you it was out Yvette waiting for you and you have fully embraced it. The good, the potential pain and the feeling of love that no one can take away from you if you don't let them. You are epic. 🥰
Always remember that, no one can take that love from you.
Jenny1234 · 56-60, F
Hello Being it’s so good to read your updates and know you’re doing well ❤
being · 36-40, F
@Jenny1234 thank you Jenny, I'm thinking of you ❤ I like to be back around here for a while 🤗
I went to a coffee with .....and openly expressing

Looks like you need to practise your eXpresso
@in10RjFox So you wish to deprive couples happiness, gotcha.
@NativePortlander1970 🤣 You mean marriage is for happiness ? So you are saying before marriage they were not happy and found happiness only after marriage ? There must be not so many divorces then ?
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urbancowboy · 56-60, M
That is rough my condolences
being · 36-40, F
@urbancowboy rough no rough but I accept 🩷
HumanEarth · F
You go you Rabbit Kunfu Girl you. Make the best of it

🫂 hugs of encouragement
being · 36-40, F
@HumanEarth thank you my beloved ❤
Bang5luts · M
I am excited and happy for you as well.
being · 36-40, F
@Bang5luts me too my beloved, I'm finally able to feel without fearing the feelings... :))
Bang5luts · M
@being You have grown for the better no matter what the outcome. ❤
fun4us2b · M
Sorry for your disappointment. 💜
being · 36-40, F
@fun4us2b aw yes and I am grateful love thought I was equipped enough even to reach that far and let it fall in, despite the outcome. I am humbled enough to receive it but if not in this way then somehow
fun4us2b · M
@being We never know until we're in it...but we learn if we allow ourselves. You're self observant and staying engaged is the right idea. Time heals along with self care.
Louise on Bob's Burgers, the cool sarcastic one.
being · 36-40, F
@NativePortlander1970 I need to see the movie first!
@being [media=https://youtu.be/4Utp82u9cgw]

 
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