robbie2499 · 61-69, F
Appearing needy.
Renkon · M
@robbie2499 It becomes hard to go through life without seeking any help. It might corner us, right?
robbie2499 · 61-69, F
@Renkon Right. I think it's our pride that prevents us from reaching out.
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
I only ask if I really need it and fear refusal, because it's usually I can't do it myself situation.
TheYawnArchive · 46-50, M
What kind of help that would be offered, and the idea of being steered into the wrong direction.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
Trusting a wrong person and them putting me in a worse situation than I was before.
@CrazyMusicLover That kind of worry can be so real. I fear an ex of mine made me feel worse about myself than I ever should have, and she was going through for social work (even had a study in university of ethics). I trusted her heart and intention, but how many times I wanted to tell her you just made me feel so much worse about myself. Even the best of intentions can lead you down a further road away from healing. They may not even know themselves.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
@awildsheepschase I'm sorry you had that experience. As cliché as it sounds, sometimes the road to hell is paved with good intentions.
@CrazyMusicLover It's fine. There was loved lost, but I know if I needed a friend or if she needed a friend we would be there together. You just learn sometimes, as much as you loved, you found love together before you were meant to find love together. Sometimes you just have to be open with yourself, you never want to feel, their love was just a station along your way.
Cigarguy · M
People thinking I can't do something and letting them down by asking for help
Shybutwilling2bfriends · 61-69
All three
Acheron · 41-45, M
Being a burden. Trusting that anyone would actually want to help.
PinkMoon · 26-30, F
Losing control
caPnAhab · 26-30, M
Being an inconvenience
LordBarbossa · 36-40, T
Losing control
Losing control
peterlee · M
Just do it.
Pool ideas.
Pool ideas.
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
Probably future rejection
Fertilization · 36-40, F
Appearing weak.
bijouxbroussard · F
Being obligated afterwards. Depending on whom I ask, of course.
basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M
The asking part.
That means speaking to people.
They're annoying and smell weird.
That means speaking to people.
They're annoying and smell weird.
Musicman · 61-69, M
People thinking less of me.