Is it sad to ask someone to send me a voice note when they get online or when they feel alone and they ignore me?

I want to feel wanted I guess and I asked for that request twice and got ignored both times.
I need to grow up and stop being pathetic right?

I guess I can't have everything. Being normal is not for me maybe I need to accept that.

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OlderSometimesWiser · F

It’s not pathetic, it’s human. Just not something everyone feels comfortable doing.

PiecingBabyFaceTogether · 31-35, M

@OlderSometimesWiser Maybe they don't want to say it to me to not make me feel bad.

OlderSometimesWiser · F

@PiecingBabyFaceTogether Certainly a possibility. But that doesn’t make it an unreasonable request.

PiecingBabyFaceTogether · 31-35, M

@OlderSometimesWiser Though they do send me voice notes when we chat and we talk on the phone, they just don't do it when I'm not available while I do it for them when they are not available.
I'm a Libra I like balance.

OlderSometimesWiser · F

@PiecingBabyFaceTogether Fellow Libra here so I understand. 🙂