It boggles my mind when people are annoyed that they could of shown empathy.

You're not annoyed, you're embarrassed that you don't do anything to help others unless it suits you. So you make people who are feeling bad, also feel like they're too much. Sometimes I read stuff here and I go through the day in my real life, and the apathy and preoccupation with self has gone a little far. Social media exposes those inner thoughts. Hiding behind a screen, a facade, a tribe of people who will agree to anything. I remember the feeling of community, I know it existed. It's only a dream now.