So is it 'expected' of a woman to through a 'hoe phase' or 'party phase' in her transition to full adulthood?

I never heard of the term until I'd been single for ages and I still don't fully get why women would feel the need to and/or want to have such a 'phase'. Can anyone properly explain what the 'hoe phase' or 'party phase' for a woman is?

Do men have anything similar?

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Bleed · 41-45, F

I use to believe my value was tied to my body count but then I grew up. I guess you could say i'm in my hoe phase now. I'm no longer prepared to settle for a guy who can't rock my world and there's only one way to put that to the test.

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

@Bleed If that revolves 100 pct around 'sexual performance' then go right ahead. I don't see sexual attraction in the way most people do so that would never be something I'd obtain a 'situational permission' to explore.

Bleed · 41-45, F

@zonavar68 It's not purely performance. Some people just spark and it's like electricity others can be good but it just feels manual, like moves without feeling 🤷🏼‍♀