I tried once, well more than once, to try an understand my partner better, (and to maybe find what i like, myself).
But... truthfully it was a little depressing, a bit scary, some was a bit aggressive or even violent, but mostly - frustrating.
I think in many weekends of spending hours looking and searching, i found very little that "floated my boat".
I found it mostly demoralising and a little offensive.
Mind you i never tried looking at more hi end porn that one subscribes to.
I don't understand why nearly all porn is the same....or has so little deviation of feel.
In mainstream movies we have multiple genres or crossover of genres. Like theres romance, action, action/romance, even action/romance/mystery/comedy.
There's everything from period stuff to sci-fi.
Why cant the porn industry be the same?
