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(The vast majority of) So-called 'modern' women cannot live without constant validation from other women and all men

How has it got to be like this?

Note I edited the title to be more specific. 8-)
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hartfire · 61-69
I live without it. Always have.
It's not as if it's like air, water, food or shelter.

The occasional pleasant comment, sincerely made, does feels very good, but I think it might be a bit like sugar - too much is addictive and unhealthy.

I'm suspicious of anyone who is too free with their compliments, especially if it's someone who doesn't know me well. Flattery always has an ulterior motive.

My husband and friends rarely make any direct comments to or about me - that I'm aware of.

My husband is willing to point out my mistakes if I haven't noticed them, and I him. We both feel this is necessary - a stitch in time to repair errors before they evolve into inconvenience or harm.
Nobody validated me today and I died
@basilfawlty89 I've died a few times now. I just love the drama.
Prettybratbi1tch · 26-30, F
@ScreamingFox I'll validate you so you can live
@Prettybratbi1tch my hero 🫠
Punches · 46-50, F
One might blame social media of course.

Some just get hooked on that validation like it is a dr*g.

I think it is more often younger women who need to be constantly reminded how pretty they are.
whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M
While this may appear to be true of some women, such generalizations are risky at best..😷
I cant? O okay you know better ofc being a boy and all
basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M
"Women cannot live without constant validation from other women and all men
How has it got to be like this?" he said very single.
Prettybratbi1tch · 26-30, F
Damn how does it feel to know all women and what they're all like buddy?
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I mean, you do post images of naked women consistently.
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
@SinlessOnslaught Because it reflects what I'm attracted to. Doesn't mean it would ever translate to anything in real life though. I'm living the happy life of singlesness!

@zonavar68 There's something called projection.
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