Some barbie ho at the gym gave me a dirty look so i gave her a death stare in return. Also called her a b*tch in passing.

She was entering the locker room i was leaving. She gave me a look and i gave it right back and said whatever b*tch in passing

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GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M

I think your disposition to things is why you have these problems you post about. You seem to take out your aggression out on other people because your not where you want in to be life.

Where do you think that comes from? Where did you learn to react that way?
What do you need to be happy?

Ferise1 · 46-50, M

@GuyWithOpinions she got a dirty look so she gave it back, what’s your major malfunction?

GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M

@Ferise1 im refering to what seems to be the contexts of many posts. Im pointing out a trend i see thinking maybe it can be changed by self awareness.

Ferise1 · 46-50, M

@GuyWithOpinions but it’s mostly posts about how she hates seeing happy couples because nobody wants her

GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M

@Ferise1 thats my point on this one

Ferise1 · 46-50, M

@GuyWithOpinions but this situation is totally different. A woman gave her a dirty look.

GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M

@Ferise1 the response though seems to be the same though. Maybe with more self confidence, a simple dirty look could be ignored rather tham cause a negative reaction where she feels she has to defend herself.

Ferise1 · 46-50, M

@GuyWithOpinions right so you think bullies should go unpunished?!

GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M

@Ferise1 i think by not feeling offended to beggin with disarms an arguement before it can happen.

Ferise1 · 46-50, M

@GuyWithOpinions in Australia we learn to stand up for ourselves and we have a much saner society

GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M

@Ferise1 standing up for yourself is one thing but trying to fight every situation is not necessary. I think its better to pick ypur battles than be pissed at everyone who looks at you wrong.

Ferise1 · 46-50, M

@GuyWithOpinions if you’re picking your battles you’re in a desperate situation. In Australia, we learn respect in school. And we have a much healthier society, people don’t injure each other for no reason. In America and probably a lot of Europe, there is a bully society, and it’s very unhealthy. It makes many people sick and suicidal.

GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M

@Ferise1 in my situation, my life has been quite harsh and difficult so small things like that dont really phase me because iv been through worse.

I dont have to protect my self or family from a mean comment. So why react to it

I dont need external validation because im comfortable with myself for what i have over came in my life.

Ferise1 · 46-50, M

@GuyWithOpinions well aren’t you Fantastic? Good for you?

GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M

@Ferise1 im telling you the perspective im speaking from as explenation for what im saying to others.