Could a person ever wanna control one

for non bad or insidious reasons? Like think of mothers, they control their kids, but couldnt possibly wanna harm them. But how is it in the adult world?
Or think of relationships? Why wanting to control is always unequivocably considered bad, even abusive? Isnt it merely expressing i would like for them to behave so and so

from my personal experience, anytime a person tried to control me they always turn out to be abusive or there was sinister motives. the trend is unfailing

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HootyTheNightOwl

I've had submissives... it's not always a case of "I want my submissive to behave in *this* manner". You always have to work in the best interests of the submissive.

Most of my work was identifying what was best for them and implementing my changes to guide them down that path. For example:- a submissive presents only eating once every other day, you work with them to get their eating back up and guide them towards getting the medical help they definitely need to make sure they're not malnourished and are able to progress towards maintaining healthy eating habits like a balanced diet and eating three meals a day.

I've also had a mother... a mother who (among other things) felt that it was acceptable to sexually abuse her children by exposing them to sexual material before they were even ten years old - so your argument that mothers don't possibly harm their children is misguided and enabling at best.

NinaCherry · 26-30, F

@HootyTheNightOwl i obv. meant healthy or normal mothers not pathologic ones

HootyTheNightOwl

@NinaCherry Even abusive mothers might think they're doing their best by the child, though... I know mine didn't see that making porn available to me as abusive - even though the law now says that it is child abuse.