I might have to live in Ukraine illegally going forward. 👀

It turns out that my husband HAS to meet up in person at the immigration office, to make my yearly permit. His mother thinks it might be a trap, but I doubt that. It sounds like a pretty legit rule, since they make my permit based on our marriage, but of course it's possible that they started catching people there either way. The big problem is still them stopping and recruiting people in cars, hence why he can't risk driving anywhere. His mother thinks I should live here illegally, and I think that might be the best option. I think it can result in me eventually getting banned from Ukraine for some years, but perhaps by that time, the war will be over and he can come with to Denmark. I doubt they would be able to find me in the first place, since they still haven't found my husband here.

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nuddie · 70-79, M

Come to Britain illegally, in dingys, across the channel from France, no passport or documents required, then you'll be put up in a hotel, everything paid for by our government.

Nightwings · 31-35, F

@nuddie That sounds too good to be true haha. I would prefer not having anything paid by anyone's government though, I would likely go back to Denmark and try to find work there quickly. Perhaps I could stay in a shelter, or something similar, until I find work.

nuddie · 70-79, M

@Nightwings thats exactly what is happening in Britain, no joke, nice to hear you'd be willing to work, unlike those scroungers that come across the channel.