Sometimes I feel like should do more with my life, but then I'm like what IS there to do, anyway?

I can't think of anything I wanna do with my life, other than create. I don't have any urges to make friends, or experience new things, is that weird? I guess I'd just like to live the rest of my days with my husband, secluded, surrounded by nature, read, write and play video games. 😅

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Friendlyperson · 26-30, F

If you feel things are right then they are. What you desribed feels like an amazing life.

You dont have to have the urge to do stuff people do or boast about. Perhaps some kind of comparison is making you question your quiet beautiful life. (Some influencers are goal achievers and encourage that... it might be good but it doesn't have to be the only truth. Walking on your pace is what matters)

Please enjoy your life and don't let anyone let make you doubt your style of living. Good luck. ❤

Nightwings · 31-35, F

@Friendlyperson I think you're right. I guess most of my friend group growing up were very adventurous and some even had a strong fear of missing out. I distinctively remember a conversation I had with my former best friend about her wanting to crash a party that she hadn't been invited to, and when I asked if that was wise, she let me know she didn't even like those people. Why did she want to go so badly then? I asked her, and she looked at me like I was some kind of loser for not understanding, and asked me if I wasn't afraid that I was gonna miss something fun or cool happening somewhere because I didn't attend? Lol.

I am honestly really happy with my life now. I was adventurous in my teen years, but grew apart from my friends because they went onto traveling, working as tour guides and such, partying, and I stopped being into it. I was never really truly into it I think. I suppose I just accepted it as normal.