Is it weird that I still think about her even though she ghosted me?

I've never reached out to her tbh. She had a boyfriend and was a full decade younger than me, but we worked well together and she was just so much fun to be around. I remember that she was so much fun to tease, and she even got me back a few times. Still, it wasn't a relationship that I was looking for, and I'd like to think we parted as friends. My closure I guess. I know she's doing well and I hope she does, so why do I miss her?

Guess it's just one of those things, right?

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greensnacks · F Best Comment

Because you are missing something in your life and try to make it up with "what ifs" when you know it wasn't meant for you. It's just memories, good memories and that's it. The more you look back, the less you have eyes for what's in front of you.

GohantheThird · M

@greensnacks Well said. Thank you.

MissNoahLenFoxx · 31-35, F

You miss who you were. You miss the way you felt around her. But that feeling is still inside of you. The modern you should meditate on it and figure out how to capture those feelings with the things or people you currently have. And if u don’t have the person or thing to bring it out of you— remember what “it” was and be that person for other people, bc if that was something you needed to feel- I bet it’s something other people would want to feel too. Be the person you wish you had.

GeistInTheMachine · 31-35, M

We want what we can't have.

You'll find that if someone is meant for you, They'll make it easy on you.

If they don't, they're not meant for you.

If she can forget me, or can't bother to find the time to remember me, then forget her.

If she can't forget about me then she'll be there when everyone else has left.