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I'm working with changing my attitude towards rejection. I'm reaching out to people here and I am getting rejected a lot but I am stirring my mind differently. It's not easy because the feeling wants some days to sit in my belly. But it's okay, for the days that I can do it, I think of how..

- Friendships do take time, people need time to get to know me and feel safe with me.
- If someone is triggered by me and doesn't feel good about me, that has nothing to do with me but it's how the other person is making choices. I free people from having to choose me and like that, I free myself from mourning them not choosing me.
- I believe in a higher power. That whatever happens, happens for the greater purpose of learning and so I accept it.
- I remind myself of the endless possibilities of Life .. and to not get stuck in a certain way of how I'm imagining things should be.
- I'm opening up, admitting my loneliness, admitting I can do it by myself and time alone is necessary for me too ... and being open to taking both, solitude and sharing :))
- I'm changing my narrative, this been going on for a while but now it's solidifying, telling myself of how people love me and want to share their time and activities with me!

Apparently, Spring is settling 🌸😎

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SageWanderer · 70-79, M
I went through much the same dealing with rejection years ago. Now I decided to let my freak flag fly and attract my fellow weirdos. In other words, just be yourself and the right ones will eventually emerge.
being · 36-40, F
@SageWanderer yes, so much for the push and pull game! Thank you 😊🙏🏼