I was talking to a guy for a few days, it was cool and he asked me out...

We're talking about where to go and decided on the beach. Then he says we can hold hands and kiss and be romantic...

This man has obviously not been hurt enough 😂 Slow down my dude 😅

Also he's ten years younger than me 😭 I'd so much rather prefer someone older.

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PalteseMalconFunch · 36-40, T

I mean that sounds cute and go get it ❤

MarbleMarvel

@PalteseMalconFunch I haven't met him yet though. I don't know if I want to hold his hand if it's weird energy.

PalteseMalconFunch · 36-40, T

@MarbleMarvel Why weird energy?

MarbleMarvel

@PalteseMalconFunch I mean if I meet him and it feels uncomfortable, I don't want to hold his hand.

I just realized I'm probably thinking way too hard about this. Part of me is afraid.

sben4200 · 56-60, M

@MarbleMarvel My advice, for whatever it's worth, is this...Meet somewhere very public. If the vibe is good, hold hands. Be clear, set boundaries, as long as you are enjoying it and feeling comfortable enjoy the thrill of something new. If anything feels off or uncomfortable take a step back or simply end the date.

Moving a bit out of our comfort zones can be good and can be exciting but trust your instincts.

Wishing you the best with this

MarbleMarvel

@sben4200 thank you. I will definitely trust my instincts.

PalteseMalconFunch · 36-40, T

@MarbleMarvel I don’t know if you are thinking too hard or not but I’m a hopeless romantic