I was talking to a guy for a few days, it was cool and he asked me out...

@sben4200 thank you

@MarbleMarvel You're welcome. I just discovered your profile and I'm enjoying reading your posts.

@WonderGirl we'll see how it goes. I definitely value wisdom and experience so this guy threw me off. Amateur move.

@MarbleMarvel My advice, for whatever it's worth, is this...Meet somewhere very public. If the vibe is good, hold hands. Be clear, set boundaries, as long as you are enjoying it and feeling comfortable enjoy the thrill of something new. If anything feels off or uncomfortable take a step back or simply end the date.

Moving a bit out of our comfort zones can be good and can be exciting but trust your instincts.

Wishing you the best with this

@sben4200 thank you. I will definitely trust my instincts.

@MarbleMarvel I don’t know if you are thinking too hard or not but I’m a hopeless romantic

@BobbyMoeven isn't that stuff supposed to happen naturally? Not part of the date plan? Just seems off to me.

@MarbleMarvel

Exactly ..that's not a normal conversation when you are just getting to know someone ..it's kinda giving you the impression that there is very little nuance to this person ... It seems juvenile as well ..

@BobbyMoeven at least I'm figuring out how to navigate this mess 😂

@CountScrofula yeah, I get it 😂 I'm not really into it at all. I was looking forward to meeting him until he said that.

Bless his heart, but the more I think on it, the more I don't want to open that can of worms at all.

@Bexsy yeah we'll see. I'm just in a place I need to take it slow

@HijabaDabbaDoo very much 😊 but it seemed weird to put that pressure on when we haven't even met yet. I don't know if I want to be affectionate with him yet and I don't want to feel like I'm agreeing to it.

@TallMtnMedic who knows

@Alex51 no but the fact that I don't know him is

@MarbleMarvel so wait till you know him if you like to continue a relationship.