With all that we know about the human mind, and all the empathy and understanding we're capable of...

Why do we still joke about obesity?

Ten years ago I weighed 300lbs and lost half of it. I was destroyed emotionally and never taught how to take care of myself. My parents self destructed in their 60's. Even though I'm in good shape now and make consistently good choices, there's a big girl inside me that only feels empathy. It was really hard to overcome the cycle of overeating because I was sad then being sad because I overate.

I guess I just don't think it's funny. People are people and everyone is struggling with something.

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Miram · 31-35, F

I think it is fine to joke about obesity, as long as it is not done to emphasize that it is parameter of acceptance, or rejection. And it is not done towards who expressed a discomfort about it.

You're probably refering to shaming, rather than playfulness.

I don't even see obesity as always a problem. There are healthy obese people. It is about fat distribution more than its existence or weight and "looks". And as a woman, sooner or later weight challenges are bound to happen.

It is bit bizarre how obesity is overemphasized much more than stress when it comes to health concerns.

ScreamingFox

@Miram Playfulness I understand. Even when I was obese I would tease myself. Nothing to take too seriously I just find different things to tease myself about now lol

Shaming is different. Pointing and laughing at someone who is clearly struggling and can't hide their issue, nor do I know the issue isn't fair. Because yeah, all kinds of bodies, all kinds of stress. It'd be great to unify on things instead of pick each other apart.