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Conflicted by the fact I feel like I'm ugly but have a decent personality

But men seem to be fine with using me as a hole but don't care about my personality
Baaaaaaaa · 26-30, M
You are beautiful and your personality is so much more than decent.

There are many awful people in the world who will attempt to use everyone they meet, for one thing or another. Their behaviour is only a statement about themselves.
caccoon · 36-40
@Baaaaaaaa this is a good point, it is more about them maybe...

It's so hard not to doubt though
Baaaaaaaa · 26-30, M
@caccoon
I know. It's normal for us to be critical of ourselves. But negative thoughts can get out of control and distort our perception of things.

Don't let the likes of them bring you down.
It doesn't matter what men think or how they see you ! It matters what you think and how you see yourself..
If you see yourself differently then you will attract different kinds of men
caccoon · 36-40
@pripyatamusementpark yes!! I need to build myself up
You are beautiful inside and out. I've noticed that the most wonderful people hurt the most. It's backwards.
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
You need to read this. Seriously.
Jeephikelove · 51-55, F
@DearAmbellina2113 yes! Such a good book
Jeephikelove · 51-55, F
I’m sorry you feel that way about yourself. We see a very beautiful woman with a huge heart, a kind soul and you’re pretty darn smart too. (Regardless of your dating history). 🤗🤗
3Dogmatic · 46-50, M
I’m sorry you have had to associate with losers. You will find THE guy for you though. Stay as positive as you can.
HannahSky · F
You're the only one who can set a boundary.
caccoon · 36-40
@HannahSky and I am, but it keeps happening that it turns out they just want that
HannahSky · F
@caccoon takes a long time to find different people, but you seem like you're working on that with your support system
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
You're not ugly and you have a great personality imo, I genuinely get you tho.
Josh1454 · M
But you are beautiful and have a a great personality.
NeuroticByNature · 41-45, F
Men are like that. Not mich more to say about it.
You're miles above average in both areas. It's your choice in men that needs work.
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caccoon · 36-40
@deadgerbil yes!! Thank you 💙
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caccoon · 36-40
@Justafantasy woman have also experienced these things
@caccoon not disagreeing with that point. I believe men and women deal with it differently. Better off alone vs better off with someone

 
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