Guys what would you do if you accidentally got a girl pregnant?

thats why the uk is great... we have 50/50 parental responsibility

@wearebutone: good on the UK I'm fucked here tho

@Firespirit: where are you?

@wearebutone: Canada

@Firespirit: maybe the law will change there too

@Firespirit: @wearebutone: I'm in Canada too! ! but why not just get married?

@Kawaii: well how does that make a difference?

Guys, whatever you do, DON'T get married - There's nothing wrong with having children with your girlfriend, DON'T MAKE HER YOUR WIFE! - You'll be financially fucked if you divorce.

@Kawaii: and have her take half my things yeah that sound great

@TheFakeSlimShady: I'm On my second marriage. financially that was all good too. divorce is cheap in the uk if you can work it out together

@wearebutone: Sure but if she want all of yours stuff not much you can here. as the courts are so bias towards women

@wearebutone: You were lucky. There are women out there that like to play "Knocked up and run". Avoid that risk entirely by not tying the knot.

@Firespirit: isn't that better than to lose earning for 18 years as the female has 100% control over the child in court?

@TheFakeSlimShady: Seems rather silly you need a piece of paper to say I love you

@Kawaii: you are gonna get that either way plus lawyer fees if she want to take the kid and you have to pay to support that kid

@Firespirit: tip, own nothing lol. i kept my dog which was mine before she kept her house that was hers before, left everything there for my kid

@Kawaii: When the child matures and works out their mother has stopped them from seeing their father for some fucked up reason, the "having 100% power in court" will bite the mother right on the left arse cheek.

@TheFakeSlimShady: oh. but what if the daddy dont want the baby?

@wearebutone: That is nice but if you owned lets say a car or a house and she took that I don't think you would be happy

@wearebutone: everyone will be happy. and you'll have a happy family

@Kawaii: Then he wouldn't fight in court to see his child, would he?

@TheFakeSlimShady: yeah if they get married then no more fighting to see the baby.

@Kawaii: Marriage isn't a guarantee that the woman can't take the man to court over custody. Also, he'll be named on the birth certificate, so he'll have just as many rights to be a parent as the mother.

Your teacher has poisoned your way of thinking in regards to this subject. Sure, there's a small minority of guys who are arseholes. But the majority of men out there (including myself) would love to be a Father and would certainly stick around.

@TheFakeSlimShady: really? cause all the friends that have baby they say the daddy don't want to take care of baby.

@Kawaii: Maybe if so many guys don't want to it could have to be with the women maybe she is intolerable