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SW-User
Yes but also flipside, childess friends expected me to be as available as before child

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@SW-User it's a loss we don't see coming... I mean obviously it's happening... But when you're on the outside, it's kinda anti-climax.
It's like that: building up with them, growing the connection, sharing and then they go to give birth and boom 💥
silence.
And more silence.
It's the anti climax I'm talking about, when experienced from the other side V00doo.
I've experienced this a few times in my life but I'm now beginning to integrate I think. So I'll take it less personal. But it's a kind of break up, that's how it feels.
I totally understand what you mean though but I feel the need to speak about the other side...
It's like that: building up with them, growing the connection, sharing and then they go to give birth and boom 💥
silence.
And more silence.
It's the anti climax I'm talking about, when experienced from the other side V00doo.
I've experienced this a few times in my life but I'm now beginning to integrate I think. So I'll take it less personal. But it's a kind of break up, that's how it feels.
I totally understand what you mean though but I feel the need to speak about the other side...

SW-User
@SW-User maybe i don't "totally understand what you mean"
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What can I do, other than, try to understand..
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What can I do, other than, try to understand..

SW-User
@SW-User Of course :) I lost many friends because they couldnt understand what I had been through. It happens.

SW-User
@SW-User I'll try to take this less personal and let time show us the way...

