Do you loose your friends once they have babies

It's happened with my sisters and with friends too
They have a whole new set of priorities

People with kids, don't forget your friends 👋🏼

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NerdyPotato ·

Yes, I've lost touch completely with many of them the day they gave birth.

SW-User

@NerdyPotato I believe the experience of birth in itself is changing the person.
And we become no relevant any more

NerdyPotato ·

@SW-User maybe to some extent, but responsibilities change a whole lot too. Caring for a baby 24/7 is exhausting, so it makes sense that other things have to move aside for that. But it's still a shame how volatile friendships are in that regard.

SW-User

@NerdyPotato I totally understand them... But I have to let go and carry on.
This happened with so many of my friends

NerdyPotato ·

@SW-User it makes perfect sense, but it still hurts. Hurt isn't going to change the situation though, so trying to let go is the best option indeed.